This site is here in order to spread awareness and knowledge of a little known condition called involuntary celibacy, 'invcel' or "incel" as it is most often referred to (because it is less of a mouthful ;). Whilst that is the official term for the condition of having a lack of sexual or romantic interaction in one's life, often for extended periods, people often take a long time to firstly truly realise that a lack of romantic interaction is what is truly being missed, and then term it as best they can.
In fact there are many names for being "involuntarily celibate". You may have thought up a name of your own (seeing as it is doubtful this is a discussion topic with the family), so here are a few of the more common terms:
long term celibacy, frigidity, shyness, sexual
dormancy, coyness, inexperience, relationship-shy, non-ogamous, i-sexual,
circumstancial celibate/virgin, un-sexual, relationship challenged,
romantically challenged, and so on...
the list is endless, which is why
this site is here, to raise awareness to those who may feel like they
are "the only one". Trust me, you aren't.
Incelsite is built on worldwide submissions from those who feel they may have something to offer other incels ... stories of empathy, hope, success, and hints and tips on how to cope, live with, and overcome the situation of being a terminally celibate person.
Do you feel like you may be involuntarily
celibate? then the "Am I Incel?" section
will show you a more in depth description of many incels to help you feel whether
you recognise any common ground.
There are many "stories so far" of guys and girls from
various backgrounds, who realised "hey, nothing's
going on in this area of my life... ..."
The Success Stories section
features people who have "graduated" from being
an incel and are now in successful relationships. There are also stories
from others who have gained a little experience in the relationship arena and feel
they are successfully moving forward.
The Advice pages feature advice for all sorts of situations, from how to approach potential partners, to how to overcome physical tension.
The comprehensive Links area
contains news on a wealth of other support websites and sources of information,
focusing on the many wider issues experienced by incels.
So, enjoy the site and we hope you find it useful.
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